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    How the Nervous System Affects Your Health

    December 8, 2022

    Your nervous system runs and powers every organ and every other system, from your brain to your digestion, breathing and beyond. But what many people don’t consider is that the natural aging process, toxins and diseases can damage your nervous system, and therefor your overall health and well-being. What does the nervous system do? Your […]

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    How the Nervous System Affects Your Health

    Your nervous system runs and powers every organ and every other system, from your brain to your digestion, breathing and beyond. But what many people don’t consider is that the natural aging process, toxins and diseases can damage your nervous system, and therefor your overall health and well-being.

    What does the nervous system do?

    Your nervous system is a bit like the Internet. But instead of nodes, your nervous system is a large network of specialized cells called neurons that “talk to each other.” These messages, which are really electrical signals, travel between your brain, skin, organs, muscles and glands. And all of the messages help your body to feel sensations, move and work correctly, and help important information get back to the brain.

    Keeping Your Nervous System Healthy to Keep YOU Healthy

    Once you begin to understand that the nervous system is what powers the rest of your body, all of its organs and other systems, you begin to realize how important it is to keep your nervous system healthy. Any hit to your nervous system can result in headaches, migraines, muscles spasm, learning difficulties and more.

    So how do you keep your nervous system healthy?

    • Eat right
    • Exercise
    • Avoid drugs
    • Drink alcohol in moderation
    • Avoid developing chronic disease, such as diabetes, which can damage your nerves.

    If you’re someone who hasn’t given much thought to your nervous system and all it does for you, it’s time you start. Take care of it and it will take care of you!

    SOURCES:

    https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/articles/21202-nervous-system

    https://www.healthdirect.gov.au/nervous-system

    https://www.nichd.nih.gov/health/topics/neuro/conditioninfo/functions

    Filed Under: health, nervous system

    Why Some Therapists Don’t Accept Insurance

    December 7, 2022

    It’s not easy finding a therapist. You’ve got to search for someone who is licensed, has experience treating your particular issue, and someone who you feel comfortable opening up to. Many know the frustration of finding someone who ticks all of these boxes, only to realize that they don’t take insurance. The truth is, roughly […]

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    Why Some Therapists Don’t Accept Insurance

    It’s not easy finding a therapist. You’ve got to search for someone who is licensed, has experience treating your particular issue, and someone who you feel comfortable opening up to. Many know the frustration of finding someone who ticks all of these boxes, only to realize that they don’t take insurance. The truth is, roughly one third of therapists in this country do not accept insurance.

    So what gives?

    Why Many Therapists Don’t Accept Insurance

    There are actually quite a few reasons why some therapists choose not accept insurance from patients:

    Low Reimbursement Rates

    The average cost of a therapy session around the country is typically between $100 to $200. With insurance, you may have a copay of $20 – $50. You may assume your therapist will bill the insurance company and be reimbursed for the rest of the money. But often insurance companies will reimburse for half the amount or less. It can be quite difficult for a therapist to make an actual living wage with such low reimbursement rates.

    Hassles

    Another deterrent for therapists is the hassle of interacting with insurance companies. As you can imagine, there are far more pleasant things to do with one’s time. Insurance companies often require therapists to continually provide documentation to justify treatment of their patients. And, because mental health outcomes can be far more difficult to measure than physical ones, it can be harder to prove to insurance companies that care is essential.

    Supply and Demand

    Far more people are seeking mental health therapy. We have actually seen a dramatic increase in new patients since the Covid pandemic. And what happens is, with so many patients willing to pay out of pocket, there is simply less of a need for therapists to deal with the hassles and headaches of insurance.

    Finding Affordable Mental Health Care

    If you are on a budget, all is not lost. There are ways to work with a great therapist and not break the bank.

    You can find a therapist who offers sliding scale payments. This simply means different people with different incomes are charged different amounts based on what they can realistically afford.

    Another option is to look for a therapist who provides online sessions. With no office rent or staff to hire, these therapists are often able to charge clients far less because they have far lower overheads to run their business.

    If you’d like to explore treatment options, please give me a call. I offer online sessions and can often work with people of all different budgets.

    SOURCES:

    Therapists Who Don’t Accept Insurance

    https://www.heartmatterstherapy.com/post/5-reasons-why-some-therapists-do-not-accept-insurance

    3 Reasons Why Many Therapists Don’t Take Insurance

    Filed Under: insurance, mental health

    Sleep Positions to Ease Back Pain

    December 3, 2022

    Do you suffer from lower back pain? If so, you’re definitely not alone. In fact, a Global Burden of Disease study named lower back pain as the leading cause of disability around the world. What may be surprising to some is that lower back pain is often brought on by the stress and strain of bad […]

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    Sleep Positions to Ease Back Pain

    Do you suffer from lower back pain? If so, you’re definitely not alone. In fact, a Global Burden of Disease study named lower back pain as the leading cause of disability around the world.

    What may be surprising to some is that lower back pain is often brought on by the stress and strain of bad posture and poor sleeping positions.

    In this article, we’ll explore the best sleeping positions that will help relieve lower back pain.

    1. On Your Side with a Pillow Between Your Knees

    Many people try sleeping on their back, and this is typically what causes the most lower back pain. Your best bet is to sleep on your side with a pillow between your legs. Some people may even need two pillows, depending on how much pressure they feel on their lower back. The trick with the pillow is that it keeps your hips, pelvis and spine in proper alignment.

    2. Fetal Position

    This position is particularly helpful to those with a herniated disc. Lay on your side, and gently tuck your knees toward your chest while at the same time, gently curl your torso toward your knees. You’ll also want to switch from side to side throughout the night.

    This position works well because curling your torso into a fetal position opens up the space between your vertebrae.

    3. On Your Back with Knees Propped Up

    I mentioned earlier that sleeping on your back is generally a bad position for the lower back. That is unless you really prop your knees up using either a couple of pillows or a piece of foam. Propping your knees up helps to keep the natural curve in your lower back. For added support, you may also want to put a rolled up towel under the small of your back.

    These three positions help our clients get a good night’s sleep and wake the next day without any lower back pain. If your back needs a bit more help than this, come in to our office for a free consultation. We’ll get you up and pain-free in no time.

    SOURCES:

    The Best — and Worst — Sleep Positions for Back Pain

    https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sleep/best-sleeping-position-for-lower-back-pain

    https://www.sleepfoundation.org/physical-health/how-to-sleep-with-lower-back-pain

    Filed Under: sleep

    How to Cope with the Stress of Inflation

    December 1, 2022

    Unless you’ve been living under a proverbial rock, you no doubt are aware that inflation is the highest it’s been in decades. From gas at the pumps to food and utilities, most of us are struggling to make ends meet. And without question, this is causing massive stress. If you are feeling intense stress from […]

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    How to Cope with the Stress of Inflation

    Unless you’ve been living under a proverbial rock, you no doubt are aware that inflation is the highest it’s been in decades. From gas at the pumps to food and utilities, most of us are struggling to make ends meet. And without question, this is causing massive stress.

    If you are feeling intense stress from the impact of inflation, here are some things you can do:

    Be Honest

    One of the worst things you can do when feeling stress and anxiety is to pretend you’re not. Be honest with yourself and others about what you’re feeling. The old saying goes, “The squeaky wheel gets the oil.” Ignoring your feelings or pretending they aren’t there will only make them louder and louder.

    Get Your Mind Off of Things

    Equally important as being honest about your stress is not obsessing over it. You really need to unplug from the stress of the economy and distract yourself with something. Mindless activities are actually a great way to quiet those stressful thoughts. Go for a run. Clean your kitchen. Watch an old movie. Whenever the anxiety begins to creep up, stop and do an activity that will calm you.

    Find Joy

    It’s important to step back and recognize that no matter how crazy the world gets and no matter how stressed we are, there is still plenty of joy all around us. On our darkest days, the sun still shines. Make sure to spend time each day noticing all of those small things that bring joy and happiness into your life. The perfect latte. A sunset. Your child’s laughter. Be thankful for each and every one of these. Gratitude is the great elixir of stress and sadness.

    These are just a few ways you can cope with the stress of inflation. You may also want to speak to someone if your stress turns into unmanageable anxiety or depression. If you’d like to explore treatment options, please reach out to me.

    SOURCES:

    https://www.huffpost.com/entry/inflation-stress-anxiety-mental-health_l_62d958ade4b0aad58d18015b

    https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/general/how-to-prepare-for-inflation-coping-with-financial-stress/

    https://www.cnbc.com/2022/05/18/rising-inflation-has-made-people-feel-anxious-here-are-ways-to-cope.html

    Filed Under: coping, finance, stress

    How to Prevent Back Pain While Traveling

    November 17, 2022

    You wait all year for that two-week vacation, so you don’t want to spend it rubbing a sore back from traveling. There’s no doubt that driving long distances or flying in ridiculously cramped quarters can give anyone back pain. Here are some things you can do to prevent back pain while traveling: Move Your Body […]

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    How to Prevent Back Pain While Traveling

    You wait all year for that two-week vacation, so you don’t want to spend it rubbing a sore back from traveling. There’s no doubt that driving long distances or flying in ridiculously cramped quarters can give anyone back pain.

    Here are some things you can do to prevent back pain while traveling:

    Move Your Body as often as Possible

    If you are flying, be sure to get up and use the restroom or walk up and down the aisle a few times. If you’re driving, be sure to pull over at those rest stops and get out and stretch your legs and back muscles.

    Manage Your Stress

    Stress causes our muscles to tense, increasing the likelihood of back pain. Managing your stress may mean being better prepared for your travels. Don’t leave things until the last minute but write a to-do list to accomplish those tasks that are important. Practicing mindfulness and deep breathing can also help greatly in reducing the mental, emotional and physical effects of stress. And finally, speak to a therapist if you are dealing with a lot of stress in your life.

    Make Some Adjustments

    Speaking of being mindful, be more mindful of how you move through your day when traveling. For instance, so many people stand in long security lines or boarding lines carrying heavy bags on their shoulders. Keep the bags on the floor and only pick them up (carefully and mindfully) when the line begins to move.

    When slinging those heavy bags above you into the overhead compartment, be sure to have your legs should-width apart or more for balance. Tighten your ab muscles to support your back and use as gentle movements as possible. If you are incapable of getting your bag up there without hurting yourself, please ask for help.

    You may also want to work with a chiropractor before your trip to work out any misalignments you have. This way you can feel your very best on your vacation!

    If you’re headed out for an adventure and want to get an adjustment, please stop by our office or give us a call!

    SOURCES:

    https://www.healthpartners.com/blog/prevent-back-pain-while-traveling/

    https://www.nbcnews.com/better/health/how-prevent-neck-back-pain-when-traveling-ncna882531

    5 Tips for Relieving Lower Back Pain While Traveling

    Filed Under: chiropractics, travel

    How to Deal with Family Drama Around the Holidays

    November 11, 2022

    For many of us, spending time with family during the holidays is something straight out of a Hallmark movie with days filled with comfort and joy. But for others, the holidays with family are scarier than Halloween. From the stress of traveling to the pressure of buying and wrapping gifts, and the fact many family […]

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    How to Deal with Family Drama Around the Holidays

    For many of us, spending time with family during the holidays is something straight out of a Hallmark movie with days filled with comfort and joy. But for others, the holidays with family are scarier than Halloween. From the stress of traveling to the pressure of buying and wrapping gifts, and the fact many family members can’t be in the same room with each other without a fight erupting, holidays can be stressful!

    While you can’t necessarily stop family drama from occurring, there are some simple and effective ways you can deal with it:

    Have Realistic Expectations

    So much of the pain of the holidays comes from having unrealistic expectations. Don’t set yourself up for disappointment. Acknowledge beforehand that you and your family are human and that there may be those moments that aren’t very pleasant and that’s okay. Life and families are messy. Recognize it, own it and you’ll find you won’t get as upset.

    Set Your Boundaries

    Time spent with families over the holidays can also trigger us to feel like children all over again, essentially helpless. But you are an adult now and you are not helpless. You can set those boundaries to protect your mental health. Determine before you go what you will tolerate and what you won’t. This can be for simple things like meal times and sleeping accommodations to what topics of discussion you will engage in. Be sure to share your personal limits with all involved.

    Use Good Judgement

    When the holiday drama sets in, it’s easy to want to drink more or eat more processed foods. But in large amounts, alcohol and processed sugars impair our mood and judgement. Do your best to not overindulge.

    You may also want to speak with a therapist in the weeks leading up to the holidays. He or she can give you tools to help you navigate the awkward and tense moments during family get-togethers.

    If you’re interested in exploring counseling, please reach out to me. I’d love to help your holidays be warm and merry (or at least tolerable!).

    SOURCES:

    https://www.hioscar.com/blog/10-healthy-ways-to-deal-with-holiday-family-drama

    https://brainmd.com/blog/how-to-avoid-family-drama-during-the-holidays/

    How to deal with toxic family members during the happiest time of year

    Filed Under: conflict issues, family

    Types of Anxiety Disorders

    November 10, 2022

    At some point in our lives, most of us will experience anxiety. It’s actually a natural reaction to many stressors such as starting a new job, taking final exams, and becoming a new parent. Now for many people, the anxiety will subside once the stressor goes away. But for others, anxiety becomes persistent and even […]

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    Types of Anxiety Disorders

    At some point in our lives, most of us will experience anxiety. It’s actually a natural reaction to many stressors such as starting a new job, taking final exams, and becoming a new parent.

    Now for many people, the anxiety will subside once the stressor goes away. But for others, anxiety becomes persistent and even excessive, even without obvious stressors, interfering with daily life. In these cases, the person is diagnosed with an anxiety disorder.

    Types of Anxiety Disorders

    According to the National Institute of Mental Health, roughly 31% of adults in this country will experience an anxiety disorder at some point in their life. In fact, according to the Anxiety & Depression Association of America, anxiety disorders are the most common mental health condition in the United States.

    Anxiety disorders include:

    • Generalized anxiety disorder (GAD)
    • Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD)
    • Panic disorder
    • Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
    • Social anxiety disorder
    • Phobias
    • Separation anxiety disorder
    • Agoraphobia
    • Symptoms of Anxiety Disorders

    Anxiety can trigger symptoms such as:

    • Excessive fear and worrying
    • Restlessness
    • Agitation
    • Panic
    • Irritability
    • Irrational fear of danger
    • Racing thoughts
    • Shortness of breath or rapid breathing
    • Sleep issues
    • Headache and stomachache
    • Pounding heart
    • Insomnia
    • Trembling
    • Muscle tension

    How are Anxiety Orders Treated?

    If you are suffering with an anxiety disorder, life may feel overwhelming most of the time. But know that there is help out there for you. Psychotherapy, or talk therapy, can reduce or eliminate your uncomfortable symptoms. Your therapist can also assess you to see if you are a good candidate for an anti-anxiety medication, at least to start. Of course, I have found there are plenty of alternative options, such as deep breathing, acupuncture, and other relaxation techniques, that have helped my clients find calm and peace.

    If you’d like to explore therapy options, please reach out to me. Life can get better.

    SOURCES:

    https://www.healthline.com/health/anxiety/types-of-anxiety

    https://www.hhs.gov/answers/mental-health-and-substance-abuse/what-are-the-five-major-types-of-anxiety-disorders/index.html

    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-cube/202204/4-types-anxiety

    Filed Under: anxiety diorder

    Eating for Well-Being Instead of Weight Loss

    October 7, 2022

    In case you haven’t heard, dieting doesn’t work. I don’t think there is one case of someone going on a diet, getting healthier (not just skinnier) and being able to maintain that diet over time. Despite perhaps losing some initial weight, the dieter will eventually throw in the towel and gain all the weight back […]

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    Eating for Well-Being Instead of Weight Loss

    In case you haven’t heard, dieting doesn’t work. I don’t think there is one case of someone going on a diet, getting healthier (not just skinnier) and being able to maintain that diet over time. Despite perhaps losing some initial weight, the dieter will eventually throw in the towel and gain all the weight back and then some. 

    Diets don’t work because they are too restrictive and often far too dangerous. But, when people are focused on losing weight instead of getting healthy, these diets are usually what they turn to. 

    It’s Time to Change the Way We Think And Eat! 

    Eating should be a flexible thing that’s based on nutrition, satiation, hunger, and pleasure, rather than being based entirely on weight loss. But if dieting is not the answer – what is? 

    Mindful Eating. 

    Mindful eating stems from the centuries-old practice of mindfulness, or mindful meditation. This practice involves giving your FULL attention to the present moment. 

    Mindful eating discourages “judging” ones eating patterns and instead encourages the individual to make food choices that will be not only satisfying to their body but also nourishing. The idea is that once we really become FULLY aware of our eating habits and can make the connection between them and how we look and feel, we can take the necessary steps to change what needs to be changed. 

    Tips for Getting Started with Mindful Eating 

    If you’ve been struggling with your weight and would like to completely shift how you think about food, here are some tips for getting started with a mindful eating practice: 

    • Appreciate the food – Honor where your food came from and how it got onto your plate. 
    • Be Sensible – Use all of your senses to really smell, taste, see and recognize the textures of your food. Be in the moment with your food. 
    • Savor and Chew Thoroughly – When you are in the present moment, fully mindful of the taste and deliciousness of the food, and when you are certain to chew thoroughly, you can’t help but slow way down. This helps not to overeat. 

    These are only a few of the principles behind mindful eating. But when you change how you think about food, any negative thoughts and emotions you have about food and weight loss will be replaced with awareness and self-control.  

    If you’d like to work with a nutritionist who focuses on mindful and flexible eating for health instead of weight loss, please reach out to me. 

    SOURCES: 

    • https://www.hsph.harvard.edu/nutritionsource/mindful-eating/ 
    • https://www.mindful.org/what-is-mindful-eating/ 
    • https://www.healthline.com/nutrition/mindful-eating-guide 

    Filed Under: nutrition

    How to Stay Active When Working from Home

    October 6, 2022

    Since the Covid lockdowns, more and more people have begun to work from home. While working remotely definitely has its benefits (wearing pajamas all day comes to mind), there are also some drawbacks. In addition to less social interaction each day, there’s also less movement. And this lack of movement can greatly impact your health […]

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    How to Stay Active When Working from Home

    Since the Covid lockdowns, more and more people have begun to work from home. While working remotely definitely has its benefits (wearing pajamas all day comes to mind), there are also some drawbacks. In addition to less social interaction each day, there’s also less movement. And this lack of movement can greatly impact your health and fitness level.

    If you’re someone who works from the comfort of their home office or sofa, keep reading to find out how you can stay active to stay healthy!

    Schedule Breaks

    When in an office environment, it’s easy to take a break to walk down to the kitchen or go gab with coworkers at the proverbial water cooler. But when people work from home, they sometimes feel a bit guilty about taking a break. I mean, you already slept in and didn’t shower, AND you want a break on top of that?

    No matter where you work, it’s important to give yourself 10-15 minute breaks a few times a day. Use these to get up and stretch and do a bit of walking to keep the blood flowing!

    Take Your Conference Calls for a Walk

    Most people have Zoom fatigue these days and we’re all trying to have good ol’ fashioned phone calls once again. Try and make your virtual meetings happen by phone and then take your calls while on a walk. This will help clear your mind so you can focus better. Plus, you’ll burn a decent amount of calories.

    Try a Standup Desk

    Some health experts have recently warned that sitting all day is worse for your health than smoking. To mitigate the health risks of sitting for hours, try a standing desk. If cost is an issue, there are laptop stands that adjust. You can place one on your table or desk and raise it to the right standing height. And if your budget is really tight, you can stack boxes or books on top of your desk to get you laptop at the right height.

    Working from home is great, as long as you find ways to keep your body active. These tips will keep your heart pumping and your blood flowing so you can protect your health.

    SOURCES:

    https://www.forbes.com/sites/forbescoachescouncil/2019/05/28/10-ways-to-stay-active-while-working-from-home/?sh=49d7bed45865

    13 Tips for Staying Active While Working From Home (2022)

    https://www.pennmedicine.org/updates/blogs/heart-and-vascular-blog/2020/march/working-from-home

    Filed Under: healthy living, working from home

    When is it Time to Ask for Help?

    October 4, 2022

    Depression is a complex mental health issue that varies widely between individuals. This is why it can be difficult for some people to recognize what may be a situational discomfort that may pass on its own, and what may be more serious and require professional help. The Difference Between Mild and Serious Mental Health Issues […]

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    When is it Time to Ask for Help?

    Depression is a complex mental health issue that varies widely between individuals. This is why it can be difficult for some people to recognize what may be a situational discomfort that may pass on its own, and what may be more serious and require professional help.

    The Difference Between Mild and Serious Mental Health Issues

    In order to measure the seriousness of a mental health issue, most mental health professionals look at what impact it has on the person’s everyday life. They also take into account the events that led to the issue.

    Mild mental health issues are typically less persistent as well as less disruptive to an individual’s everyday life. Serious mental health issues, on the other hand, are often so severe that they negatively impact that person’s relationships and performance at school and work.

    As an example, feeling pressure at work about an upcoming deadline will make just about anyone feel stressed and anxious. But if your anxiety becomes so great that you begin calling in sick to work to avoid the project and responsibilities, that would be seen as a disruption in your everyday life. Severe anxiety can lead to panic attacks and that is definitely a reason to seek support.

    Something else to keep in mind is the context around the mental health issue. It is perfectly normal to grieve after losing a loved one or to feel anger and resentment after discovering your partner’s infidelity. While it can definitely be helpful to speak with someone during these times, you may not necessarily be experiencing a severe mental health crisis that would warrant help.

    It is important to mention that the events of one’s life need not be “serious” in order for you to reach out for help. Whatever it is that you are going through and whatever feelings you are experiencing, they are valid.

    Warning Signs of a Serious Mental Health Crisis

    The following are some red flags of a mental health crisis that warrant asking for help:

    • Feeling sad or “down” for long periods of time (particularly without an inciting incident)
    • Noticeable mood swings from very high, like euphoria, to very low, like deep sadness or depression
    • Excessive worry
    • Feeling empty or apathetic about life
    • Engaging in self-harming behaviors, like cutting
    • Withdrawing from friends and family
    • Changes in appetite, sleep or sex drive
    • Constant fatigue
    • Thoughts of suicide

    If you or a loved one are experiencing any of these symptoms, it’s time to reach out and ask for help. While the days seem dark right now, they can and will get brighter. I’d love to help you get there, so please get in touch with me so we can set up a time to speak.

    SOURCES:

    https://www.counseling.org/news/aca-blogs/aca-counseling-corner/aca-counseling-corner-blog/2018/03/01/knowing-when-to-ask-for-help#:~:text=If%20you’re%20facing%20a,to%20seek%20out%20professional%20help

    https://jedfoundation.org/resource/mental-health-warning-signs-and-when-to-ask-for-help/

    https://www.columbiatribune.com/story/sponsor-story/burrell-behavioral-health/2022/05/02/mental-health-matters-knowing-when-ask-help/9558636002/

    Filed Under: counseling, mental health

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